Hi there wonderful! I’m Dominee Calderon and I’d like to officially welcome you to my cozy little space on the internet called Self-Love Rainbow where we curl up with a big cup of coffee (or tea if that’s your preference) and chat about self-care and mental health. I am SO passionate about creating affirming spaces for all types of people to have honest conversations. I am a creator at heart. I write, I create art digitally, and I really just want to make the world a better place!
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6 Tips for Digital Creator Anxiety
I want to preface this post by saying it’s a lot of do as I say, not as I do. Kidding. I’m trying to do it, but I also want to acknowledge it’s hard dealing with digital creator anxiety and…
Invisible High Functioning Anxiety
Hello there you lovely arrangement of atoms. The other day – I sent out this newsletter about high functioning anxiety and it really resonated so I wanted to share it here too. I send out newsletters every Monday morning on…
What Is Alexithymia? (Not Knowing Your Emotions)
Have you ever been asked “How are you feeling right now?” and just… drawn a complete blank? No words come to mind. Not because nothing is going on inside of you. Something is definitely going on because you *feel* something……
My Word-of-the-Year for 2026
This will be my 15th year choosing a word-of-the-year. I love that I can look back and clearly see who I was in each season of my life. Some words felt magical and life-changing and others felt really freaking frustrating….
Your Holiday Self-Care Battery
Let’s have a little Holiday Self-Care Battery check-in! The holidays can be tough on your mental health. Like, really tough. It’s okay to say “Hey, this time of year is hard for me” without immediately following it up with all…
Graveyard of Old Habits: Letting Go
Autumn is traditionally the season of letting go and releasing. Danielle C. on Patreon made a suggestion of things to let go or “bury” that would benefit our mental health and I thought it was a nice way to kind…
Managing Travel Anxiety
I’ve talked about how when you have anxiety – your nervous system can mistake excitement for anxiety. Today we’re going to chat about travel anxiety – something that’s supposed to be fun and exciting but for many of us, the…
WFH Self-Care Ideas
I’m coming up on four years since I quit my real-life job for this absolutely magical one. I’ve had a lot of struggles working for myself. Work-life balance was a big one and being my own boss was another thing…
Self-Care Also Looks Like…
When you hear “self-care,” what pops into your head? Right now, for me it looks like not working past 8pm because it’s been a long day and I deserve a break even though there’s still stuff to do (but there’s…
Happy Brain Chemicals & Mood Boosters
Our brains are kinda like tiny potion labs that are constantly mixing up little chemical concoctions that affect how we feel. If your brain sometimes feels like it’s got a slightly dysfunctional production line or like the dopamine machine’s on…
From Doom-Scrolling to Hope-Questing
Do you doom-scroll? I did, sometimes I do. It ramps up my anxiety, it makes my stomach hurt, and it sends me into this spiral of, well… doom. Doom-scrolling is getting stuck in this cycle of reading negative news or…
What is C-PTSD?
I’ve talked about trauma before but today I want to talk about what is C-PTSD? In the last decade, we’ve come so far in our understanding of what trauma is and how it can affect us in the long term….
